Recently I browse into Shazwani Hamid's Blog. And found the beautiful and great article about... ;)
What Woman Wants in a Marriage?
1. Woman get married to find a special friend
2. They want someone who will..
- Share their secrets
- Laugh and joke with them
- Love them unconditionally
- Cherish and adore them while being romantic
- Making them feel beautiful
4. Someone who can stand up and take the responsibility of the
household, and help raise their children in accordance with Islam
5. They want someone who will be attracted to them emotionally through
their personality, and attracted to them through their bodies.
6. A woman wants a partner who will strive together with her through this life.
7. Laughing and rejoicing through the good times.
8. Sticking by each other and supporting each other through the bad times
9. A woman wants her husband to be her friend, companion and her soul mate!
10. Any good husband MUST realize that a woman's primary need is: EMOTIONAL
11. He must take into account the prophetic tradition
12. And strive to be the BEST to his wife.
13. He must take care of their wives and this entails treating them with
love and respect, and striving to make them happy as men have been
assigned this responsibility by Allah.
14. If a husband can fulfill his wife's primary needs, not only Allah
would reward him, but his wife will definitely be content with him, and
together the couple's life will be more HARMONIOUS!
15. When a woman's needs are fulfilled, she will be MORE willing to fulfill her husband's needs.
16. The BEST way to satisfy a woman's emotional needs is to LISTEN to her and respond to her with COMPASSION.
17. By listening to her intently, with your undivided attention, and
taking a genuine interest in what she has to say, she will feel loved,
cherished and important!
18. And men must realize that when she approaches you with her problems,
she doesn't necessarily want solutions, she just wants a sympathy and UNDERSTANDING.
19. To have a successful relationship, both must understand each other's
needs. A husband must take into account that a woman's needs and
expectations are different than a man's, and vice versa.
20. If a woman and man finds a complete, fulfilling relationship, it is
then that... A GREAT INTIMACY FOR BOTH HAS BEEN ACHIEVED!
Dearly Hanif (my very sooooooooon future husband);
InshaALLAH, I hope we can go through our marriage to be harmonies , happiness with full of love. You are the only one who I want to spend the rest of my life until JANNAH. inshaALLAH
love;
♥Munirah Abd♥
Assalamualaikum wbt..
ReplyDeletebtul sgt2 apa yg dikatakan..hanya tu harapan kite org pmpuan kpd si suami..
semoga akak sentiasa bahagia dalam melayari bahtera alam rumah tangga :)
to my dearest future wife Munirah, insyaallah i'll become a good husband and try to be as perfect as i can to fulfill your wish. With the guidance from Islamic rules and al-Quran, i'll try to be a role model for our future family. and we'll always be together in whatever condition our life is. if the situation is good we'll enjoy the happiness together, and if not so good we'll go through the situation together as one for a better solution. Insyaallah with some prayers and love, we'll be make sure that our marriage is as newly wed each days. love and miss you always my dear..
ReplyDeletelots of love, Hanif Nasir
Amin dear :) Itulah indahnya sebuah perkahwinan. Akak doakan yang terbaik untuk Mun. Love u!!
ReplyDeleteinteresting!anyway good luck hanif and makcik munirah!hehe.. berape lame ek korang kapel?since aku kat ireland lagikan xsalah?semoga kekal sehingga akhir hayat dan insyaAllah sampai ke Jannah..jadi isteri yang solehah ek nanti?ehehe
ReplyDeleteMun, selamat pengantin baru dear :)
ReplyDeleteAkak doakan Mun berbahagia hingga ke akhir hayat. Aminnn....
Love u!!
;D
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